Do you miss your ex right now?
Do you like to get your ex back?
Do you like to do the no contact rule to get your ex back?
If your answer is yes on all my questions above it means that you're still hoping to get your ex back after a painful break up. And I'm sure that you're willing to do everything just to get her back. But getting your ex back is not easy and it can give you a lot of disappointment because we have no right to force someone into our life. Its very important to think carefully if you really like to get her back because sometimes just missing your ex can affect how you think towards her that can result to making yourself needy and desperate to get her back even though you don't love her anymore.
Being needy and desperate is not attractive and it can lead to problems in your relationship. It may irritate your ex so much that she will ignore you every time you communicate with her. You need to know that after a painful break up, your ex feels a lot of emotions and worries about what will happen after the two of you broke up that is why I advice you to reduce your clingy attitude towards her just to make her feel you're giving her space. Giving her space can help her to refresh her mind after a painful break up that can reduce her frustration towards you.
3 Signs that you’re a needy-desperate person
Spamming her with your message
Sending too many emails, text messages or by means of calling her so many times will make her more angry to you. Forcing her to answer you is not a good way to get her back because she will think that you’re not giving her time to breath from the pain you’ve caused on her.
Telling her that she’s the one who did something wrong
Never tell your ex about her past mistakes on you over and over again just to make sure she comes back to you by helping her realize that you did not do something wrong with her. You need to remember that discussing of past mistakes are not important when it comes to getting her back because she will just laugh at you if you do that or make the situation worse.
You Control her
You need to understand that after both of you broke up from each other means you have no right to demand something from her. Stop controlling her by checking her social media accounts, posting comments to her photos just to make sure the other guys will know that your ex is still in a relationship with you and most specially, stop being angry with her every time she meet up with someone else.
Do you like to get your ex back?
Do you like to do the no contact rule to get your ex back?
If your answer is yes on all my questions above it means that you're still hoping to get your ex back after a painful break up. And I'm sure that you're willing to do everything just to get her back. But getting your ex back is not easy and it can give you a lot of disappointment because we have no right to force someone into our life. Its very important to think carefully if you really like to get her back because sometimes just missing your ex can affect how you think towards her that can result to making yourself needy and desperate to get her back even though you don't love her anymore.
Being needy and desperate is not attractive and it can lead to problems in your relationship. It may irritate your ex so much that she will ignore you every time you communicate with her. You need to know that after a painful break up, your ex feels a lot of emotions and worries about what will happen after the two of you broke up that is why I advice you to reduce your clingy attitude towards her just to make her feel you're giving her space. Giving her space can help her to refresh her mind after a painful break up that can reduce her frustration towards you.
3 Signs that you’re a needy-desperate person
Spamming her with your message
Sending too many emails, text messages or by means of calling her so many times will make her more angry to you. Forcing her to answer you is not a good way to get her back because she will think that you’re not giving her time to breath from the pain you’ve caused on her.
Telling her that she’s the one who did something wrong
Never tell your ex about her past mistakes on you over and over again just to make sure she comes back to you by helping her realize that you did not do something wrong with her. You need to remember that discussing of past mistakes are not important when it comes to getting her back because she will just laugh at you if you do that or make the situation worse.
You Control her
You need to understand that after both of you broke up from each other means you have no right to demand something from her. Stop controlling her by checking her social media accounts, posting comments to her photos just to make sure the other guys will know that your ex is still in a relationship with you and most specially, stop being angry with her every time she meet up with someone else.
If you really like to get your ex back I advice you to do no contact for at least a month or more depending on how severe your relationship was with her. No contact means you will stop all kinds of communication with her because this is the only way for both of you to have time to refresh yourselves from that painful break up. What "to refresh" means in doing no contact? It means that this is the time in which your ex can start learning to enjoy life again without you on her side by doing the things she loves so that she may reduce or forget the painful heartbreak you've caused on her. Preventing yourself to communicate with her can also help you to improve yourself not only to learn how to live happily without your ex but to have enough time to decide whether you like to get her back or not.
These are the ways that you need to avoid doing while doing no contact
Replying to your ex
Answering her call
Checking her social media accounts
Looking at her photos or videos
Listen to songs that both of you love
Going to her place
Sending text, chat, email
After 30 days, do the following:
Text or greet her in a friendly way
Start becoming friends again (never force her If she doesn’t want to)
Accept the fact that your past relationship with her is no longer important (no need to open a discussion about it)
Control your text messages
Pray and trust God to help you get your ex back
Be kind to her all the time so that she knows you change a lot from being needy to becoming a good person again
Avoid doing the same mistakes you did with her
The main purpose of doing no contact is not only to improve yourself or to make her miss you but to make her like you so that you can get her back into your life. Having a relationship is a fun way to experience life because you and your partner will share everything from the start but I hope that you understand that experiencing some kind of rejection from your ex is not a trial but a lesson for you to become matured for your future relationship.
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